The disagreement mostly comes from the two sides answering different questions.
The 0.8 figure is the amount needed to avoid deficiency in a sedentary adult. It was never intended as the amount that maximises training adaptation, and quoting it against lifters compares a floor with a ceiling.
The best evidence for trained people doing resistance work points to roughly 1.6 grams per kilogram per day, with the benefit flattening out by about 2.2. Morton's 2018 meta analysis is the usual reference for that.
Above that there is no measured additional benefit for muscle, which is where the gym advice overshoots. It is not harmful for healthy kidneys, it is simply not doing anything.