Shape from Repulsion
VSEPR theory rests on one idea: electron domains around a central atom push each other as far apart as possible. A domain is any single bond, any multiple bond (counted once), or any lone pair.
| Domains | Arrangement | Ideal angle |
|---|---|---|
| 2 | Linear | |
| 3 | Trigonal planar | |
| 4 | Tetrahedral | |
| 5 | Trigonal bipyramidal | and |
| 6 | Octahedral |
The molecular shape is what you see when only the atoms are drawn, so lone pairs change the name without changing the domain count. Four domains give a tetrahedral arrangement, but methane (0 lone pairs) is tetrahedral, ammonia (1) is trigonal pyramidal, and water (2) is bent.
Lone pairs also squeeze the angles. A lone pair is held by one nucleus only, so it spreads wider than a bonding pair and pushes harder. The tetrahedral therefore falls to in ammonia and in water. Repulsion strength ranks: lone-lone > lone-bond > bond-bond.
Molecular polarity needs two things: polar bonds, and a geometry that fails to cancel them. Bond dipoles are vectors, so a symmetric arrangement of identical bonds sums to zero. has two strongly polar C=O bonds pointing in exactly opposite directions and is nonpolar; has two similar bonds at that add to a large net dipole. is nonpolar for the same reason as , while is polar because one substituent differs and the cancellation fails.
Common pitfall: deciding polarity from the bonds alone. Polar bonds are necessary but not sufficient, the geometry decides whether they cancel. Carbon dioxide is the standard counterexample: very polar bonds, zero net dipole.